Safety When You Live Alone · Lesson 4 of 8 · 10 min
Your arrival routine: getting home and getting in
The Personal Safety module covers getting home at night. This lesson zooms in on the last few minutes: the walk to your door, getting in, and letting someone know you are safe when nobody is waiting for you.
Before you reach your building
- Have your key or access card in your hand before you reach the door, so you are not searching in your bag on the doorstep.
- Take headphones out and put your phone away for the last stretch so you can notice what is around you.
- If someone seems to be following you, do not go home and lead them there. Go somewhere busy and lit, such as a shop or reception, and call for help if needed (999 in the UAE and the UK).
- In shared buildings, do not let people you do not know follow you through the main entrance (Aston Students' Union).
Check before you go in
- Look at your door and windows as you arrive. Signs that something is wrong include a damaged lock, a door that is open or a broken window.
- If anything looks wrong and someone could still be inside, do not go in. East Cambridgeshire District Council advises calling 999 if you think intruders may still be inside.
- Go to a neighbour, reception or a safe public place to make the call. Lesson hs-05 covers what to do next.
- Once inside, lock the door behind you straight away, then put your keys in their usual spot.
Let someone know: the check-in
- When you lived with family, someone noticed if you were late. Living alone, you need to build that safety net on purpose.
- Agree a simple rule with a friend or relative: you message when you are home after a late night, and they follow up if they do not hear from you.
- On an iPhone, Apple's Check In feature in Messages can tell a friend automatically when you arrive. Both of you need iOS 17 or later (Apple).
- If your iPhone stops making progress towards your destination, Check In gives you 15 minutes to respond before your contact is alerted and shown your location, battery and signal details (Apple).
- On Android phones with the Safety app, Emergency sharing lets chosen contacts see your real-time location and battery level, and it ends automatically after 24 hours (Android Help). Features vary by phone and country.
Lifts, stairs and corridors
- If someone in the lift or corridor makes you uncomfortable, it is fine to wait for the next lift or walk back to reception.
- Do not feel you have to hold the door for a stranger into a secure area; say 'Sorry, building rules' and let them use their own key or call.
- Report broken entrance doors, faulty lights in stairwells or lost access cards to building management promptly.
Practise in real life
Tick each one off when you have done it.
- Agree a 'home safe' message routine with one friend or family member this week.
- Try Check In (iPhone) or Emergency sharing (Android) once on a short trip so you know how it works.
- On your next arrival home, practise: key ready, look at the door, lock it behind you.
Remember
- Have your key ready before you reach the door.
- If your door or window looks damaged, do not go in: get somewhere safe and call 999.
- Never lead someone who is following you to your home.
- Build a check-in habit so someone notices if you do not arrive.
Note: Phone safety features change with software updates and vary by device, country and carrier. Check the current version of Apple's and Google's help pages on your own phone.
Check yourself
1. You arrive home and your front door is slightly open with a damaged lock. What should you do?
2. Someone seems to be following you as you walk home. What is the best move?
3. What does Apple's Check In do if you do not arrive as expected and do not respond?
4. How long does Android's Emergency sharing last before it ends automatically?
5. A stranger walks up behind you as you open the secure entrance of your block and asks you to hold the door. What is a reasonable response?