Looking After Yourself When You Are Ill · Lesson 7 of 10 · 11 min
Period pain and menstrual health
For many students who have periods, managing them without family nearby is a new responsibility. This lesson gives factual, practical information so you know what is normal, what helps and when to see a doctor. Everyone can benefit from understanding it, including to support friends and flatmates.
What is typical
- The NHS says periods usually come about every 28 days, but anywhere from every 21 to 35 days is common.
- A period usually lasts about 5 days, within a range of 2 to 7 days, and bleeding is heaviest in the first 2 days.
- Typical blood loss is about 20 to 90ml (roughly 1 to 5 tablespoons), though some people bleed more.
- Cycles can change with stress, travel, illness and big life changes, such as moving abroad; tracking them helps you notice patterns.
- Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) can cause bloating, tender breasts, mood swings, irritability, spots and headaches before a period; it usually eases when the period starts.
Period pain: what helps
- The NHS describes period pain as cramps in the tummy that can spread to the back and thighs, usually lasting up to 3 days.
- Self-help suggested by the NHS: a warm bath or shower, a heat pad or hot water bottle wrapped in a tea towel on your tummy, and massaging your tummy and back.
- Gentle exercise such as walking, swimming, yoga or cycling can help.
- Paracetamol or ibuprofen can ease pain; follow the label and the safe-use lesson in this module.
- Keep a heat pad and painkillers in your kit and a spare product in your bag, so a lecture day is manageable.
Products and hygiene
- Options include pads (disposable or reusable), tampons, menstrual cups and period underwear; choose what suits you, your comfort and your values.
- Follow the product instructions, wash your hands before and after, and do not leave tampons or cups in longer than recommended; the NHS links this to preventing toxic shock syndrome.
- Toxic shock syndrome is rare but serious. Symptoms include a high temperature, flu-like aches and a sandpaper-like rash; if you have these while using a tampon or cup, remove it and get urgent advice, saying you were using one.
- Find out where to buy products near your accommodation in your first week, and keep a small stock so you are never caught out.
When to see a doctor
- See a GP if periods become more painful, heavier or irregular, or if pain stops you doing your usual daily activities (NHS).
- Signs of heavy periods include changing a pad or tampon every 1 to 2 hours, needing two types of product at once, periods lasting more than 7 days, clots larger than about 2.5cm, or feeling tired or short of breath a lot.
- See a GP about bleeding between periods.
- Get an urgent GP appointment or call NHS 111 if pelvic or period pain is severe or worse than usual and painkillers have not helped.
- Severe period pain is sometimes caused by a condition such as endometriosis or fibroids, so it is worth getting checked rather than putting up with it.
Talking about it
- Doctors and pharmacists discuss periods every day; you can say simply: 'My periods have become very painful and painkillers aren't helping.'
- You can ask to see a female doctor or nurse if that makes you more comfortable; many practices will try to arrange this.
- If severe period pain affects an exam or deadline, it may count under your university's mitigating circumstances rules; see the last lesson in this module.
- Friends of any gender can help by keeping a spare product, being discreet and never making jokes about it.
Practise in real life
Tick each one off when you have done it.
- If you have periods, start tracking them in an app or a simple calendar for three months, including pain and how heavy they are.
- Put a heat pad or hot water bottle, painkillers and spare products in your kit and bag.
- Find out how to book with a female doctor or nurse at your new surgery or clinic, if that matters to you.
Remember
- Cycles of 21 to 35 days are common.
- Heat, gentle movement and simple painkillers help most period pain.
- Pain that stops daily life or heavy bleeding deserves a doctor's visit.
- Follow product instructions and know the signs of toxic shock syndrome.
Note: NHS pages say 'call 999' and 'call 111' because they are written for the UK. In the UAE, the government portal lists 998 for an ambulance and 999 for police. If you study elsewhere, look up the local emergency and non-emergency medical numbers on an official site before you need them. This lesson is general information, not medical advice; a pharmacist or doctor who knows your history should guide your own treatment. Being able to request a female clinician is common practice but not guaranteed; check with your surgery or clinic. Questions about periods and religious practice (for example fasting or prayer) are best discussed with a qualified scholar or faith leader.
Check yourself
1. According to the NHS, how often do periods commonly come?
2. Which is an NHS self-help tip for period pain?
3. Which is a sign of heavy periods listed by the NHS?
4. You have a high temperature, aches and a sandpaper-like rash while using a tampon. What should you do?
5. When does the NHS advise an urgent GP appointment or NHS 111 for period pain?