Day 1: Voice, Presence and Nerves
Calm your body, use your voice and say something worth hearing without a script.
Today's goal
By the end of today you can settle your nerves in a few minutes, vary your voice on purpose and give a one to two minute impromptu answer.
Agenda
- Warm-upDid You Know That I Once...?15 min
- LearnWhy nerves happen and what helps15 min
- ActivityBreathe, stand, begin20 min
- LearnYour voice and body as tools15 min
- ActivityVocal variety lab25 min
- BreakBreak15 min
- ActivityTable Topics round30 min
- ActivityFiller-word clinic20 min
- ReflectNerves to notes15 min
- QuizDay 1 quiz10 min
The session
Did You Know That I Once...?
A gentle start adapted from the Toastmasters Table Topics idea 'Did You Know That I Once...?', where listeners guess whether a story is true: everyone speaks for a few seconds before nerves have time to build.
- Write three short statements about yourself: two true, one invented. Keep them light, for example a food you have tried or a place you have visited.
- Stand or sit up straight and say all three in under 30 seconds.
- Listeners guess which one is invented and say why.
- Notice how it felt to speak first. Rate your nerves from 1 (calm) to 10 (very nervous) in your notebook.
Solo
Record yourself saying the three statements to the camera, then ask a family member to guess the invented one later.
Group
In a circle or pods of 5 to 7, each person takes a turn of about 30 seconds. The facilitator goes first.
Why nerves happen and what helps
Nerves are a normal stress response, not a sign that you are bad at speaking. A few habits make them manageable.
- Slow belly breathing is a simple way to calm stress: the NHS suggests breathing in through the nose and out through the mouth, counting gently to 5 each way, for at least 5 minutes.
- Treat speaking as a conversation, not a performance. In Toastmaster magazine, Matt Abrahams notes that the idea of a 'performance' brings a tremendous amount of pressure.
- Focus on your audience and your message rather than on yourself; this reduces self-focused anxiety.
- Remember you have the floor. Toastmasters advice is that knowing no one will interrupt you can ease nervousness and the urge to fill silence.
- Practise often. Confidence grows with each attempt, and preparation makes delivery smoother.
Related lessons: Public speaking and presentations
Breathe, stand, begin
Build a two-minute pre-speech routine you can use before any class presentation, interview or exam speaking test.
- Breathing (5 minutes): sit or stand with feet flat and hip-width apart. Breathe into your belly, in through the nose for a count of 5, out through the mouth for a count of 5. Do not force it.
- Posture (3 minutes): stand with feet about shoulder-width apart, knees relaxed, back straight, shoulders squared and head up, as described in the Toastmasters Pathways guide.
- Partner check (4 minutes): one person stands in speaking posture and says a single sentence; the other names one thing that looks confident.
- Write your personal routine on an index card: for example, 'three slow breaths, feet planted, shoulders back, find a friendly face, first sentence'.
- Rehearse your routine twice, then say your first sentence from the warm-up again and re-rate your nerves.
Solo
Do the routine in front of a mirror, then record one sentence before and after. Compare the two clips.
Group
Pairs, low-contact and side by side. Swap roles after 4 minutes. Anyone may do the posture check privately facing a wall or mirror instead.
Your voice and body as tools
The Toastmasters Pathways guide to vocal variety and body language gives you a toolkit to keep listeners with you.
- Volume: be heard at the back, and use contrast. The guide notes that a quiet moment can stand out: 'a whisper may be even more powerful.'
- Pitch: rise and fall to avoid a monotone. Extend your range gradually by practising scales on 'ahh', staying within your comfort zone.
- Pace: too fast is hard to follow; too slow loses listeners. Change pace to build emotion.
- Pauses: silence builds tension and adds impact, and gives you time to think.
- Gestures: make them purposeful. The guide names four types: descriptive, emphatic, suggestive and prompting.
- Eye contact: use it to convey emotion, invite a response and read the room. The guide notes that acceptable gestures vary widely between cultures, so plan your body language with your audience in mind.
Related lessons: Public speaking and presentations, The art of conversation
Vocal variety lab
Hear the difference your voice makes by saying the same words in different ways.
- Choose a short paragraph of 4 to 5 sentences: a news report, a school notice or a paragraph from a book you like, in Arabic or English.
- Read it once flat and fast. Then read it again slowly with clear pauses at each full stop.
- Mark one key word per sentence and read it a third time, stressing those words with volume or pitch.
- Add one deliberate 2-second pause before the most important sentence and read it a fourth time.
- Add one purposeful gesture of any of the four types and read it a final time.
- Write down which version felt most natural and which sounded most convincing. They may be different.
Solo
Record all five versions and listen back with your eyes closed. Note the version you would want to listen to for 3 minutes.
Group
In pods, each student reads two contrasting versions (about 2 minutes each). Listeners vote by raising a card for the more engaging one and name one reason.
Break
Drink water, stretch and rest your voice.
- Step away from screens.
- Sip water slowly; a dry mouth is common when nervous.
Table Topics round
Table Topics is the impromptu speaking part of a Toastmasters meeting: a Topicsmaster asks a question and each speaker answers for one to two minutes with no preparation.
- Roles: one Topicsmaster (asks questions), one Timer (shows green at 1 minute, amber at 1 minute 30, red at 2 minutes), one Ah-Counter (notes filler words), speakers. Rotate roles each round.
- Prepare 15 topic cards, such as: 'Advice to your younger self', 'The most useful object in your house', 'A skill every teenager in the UAE should learn', 'Describe your perfect weekend without using your phone'.
- Each speaker draws a card and answers as a mini-speech with an opening, body and closing, as Toastmaster magazine suggests.
- Start with your opinion: you already know what you think, so begin there with confidence.
- Round two: Speed Table Topics. One minute each, with green at 45 seconds and red at one minute, as described in Toastmaster magazine.
- After each speaker, the group gives one sentence of genuine praise only. Feedback technique comes on Day 2.
Solo
Shuffle your 15 cards, draw one, start a 2-minute timer and answer to the camera. Do at least five topics, including two in a second language if you have one.
Group
Pods of 5 to 7. Allow about three minutes per speaker including changeover, as Toastmasters suggests for planning. Every student should speak at least twice.
Related lessons: Public speaking and presentations
Filler-word clinic
Toastmasters notes that filler words are invisible to the speaker but not to the listener. Today you make them visible and swap them for pauses.
- The Ah-Counter role in Toastmasters notes sounds such as 'ah', 'um' and 'er' and overused words such as 'and', 'well', 'but', 'so' and 'you know'. Add 'like', and in Arabic 'yaani' or 'ehh'.
- Speak for one minute on a new topic card while a partner tallies your fillers.
- Repeat on the same topic, this time pausing silently whenever you feel a filler coming.
- Compare the two counts. Do not aim for zero; aim for fewer and for pauses that feel deliberate.
- Write your top two filler words on a card to watch for this week.
Solo
Record two one-minute takes and count the fillers yourself while watching back.
Group
Pairs or trios. The tally is private: the Ah-Counter shows the speaker the number, not the whole room.
Nerves to notes
Capture what worked today so you can repeat it.
- Compare your nerves rating from the warm-up with how you feel now.
- Write one thing your voice did well and one thing to try tomorrow.
- Finalise your pre-speech routine card and keep it in your phone case or pencil case.
Solo
Watch your best Table Topics clip once and write three observations: one about voice, one about body, one about structure.
Group
Pairs share one observation each, then three volunteers share with the whole group.
Day 1 quiz
Five quick questions on today's teaching points.
- Answer on your own.
- Check the explanations and correct your notes.
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Day 1 quiz
Score 80% or more to complete Day 1.
1. In the NHS breathing exercise for stress, how should you breathe?
2. How long is a typical Table Topics answer in a Toastmasters meeting?
3. What does the Ah-Counter role do in a Toastmasters meeting?
4. According to Toastmasters advice, what should you do instead of saying 'um'?
5. Which is one of the four gesture types in the Toastmasters Pathways guide?
Overnight challenge
Use your pre-speech routine before you answer a question in class or speak at the dinner table, then give a one-minute 'Table Topic' to a family member on a subject they choose.
Sources
- NHS: Breathing exercises for stress
- Toastmasters International: The Two Sides of Table Topics (Toastmaster magazine, January 2022)
- Toastmasters International: Shake Up Table Topics With Creative Ideas (Toastmaster magazine, December 2018)
- Toastmasters International Pathways: Vocal Variety and Body Language
- Toastmasters International: Cutting Out Filler Words
- Toastmasters International: Ah-Counter meeting role