Self-Discipline and Motivation Without Parents · Lesson 4 of 8 · 10 min
Waking up on your own
No more parent knocking on the door. If you have a 9 am lecture, an exam or a shift, getting up reliably is now entirely your job. This lesson gives you a system, not just a louder alarm. For the basics of sleep, see the Nutrition module's lesson 'Sleep for teenagers'.
How much sleep you actually need
- The CDC recommends 8 to 10 hours a night for teenagers aged 13 to 17 and 7 or more hours for adults aged 18 to 60.
- If you regularly need two alarms and still feel exhausted, the most likely problem is not your alarm but too little sleep.
- Waking up is easier when your body expects it, so similar wake-up times every day, even at weekends, help regulate your internal clock, according to the Sleep Foundation.
Work backwards from your wake-up time
- Worked example: your lecture is at 9.00 am, the walk takes 20 minutes and you want 10 minutes spare, so you leave at 8.30 am.
- Your morning routine takes 45 minutes, so you need to be up at 7.45 am.
- If you are 18 and aim for at least 7 hours of sleep plus about 20 minutes to fall asleep, lights out should be no later than about 12.25 am; aiming for 8 hours moves it to about 11.25 pm.
- Set a 'start winding down' reminder 30 to 60 minutes before lights out (Android's Bedtime mode can also run on a schedule).
Alarms that actually get you up
- Set the alarm for the time you really need to get up, not earlier with plans to snooze; a Houston Methodist sleep specialist and the Sleep Foundation both give this advice.
- Put the alarm (or phone) across the room so you have to physically get up to switch it off.
- Turn on a light or open the curtains as soon as the alarm goes; light helps signal to your body that it is time to be awake.
- For very important mornings (exams, flights, interviews), set a backup alarm on a second device and ask a friend or family member to call you.
- Choose an alarm sound you do not hate, and keep it only for waking so your brain links it with getting up.
Snoozing and grogginess
- Sleep inertia is the groggy, heavy feeling just after waking; it is normal and passes once you are up and moving.
- A Houston Methodist sleep neurologist says repeatedly snoozing does not make you feel more rested, and the Sleep Foundation warns that the extra sleep you get while snoozing is fragmented.
- Better plan: get up on the first alarm, drink water, get light and move about; the grogginess will lift.
Building the habit in your first weeks
- In week one, pick one fixed wake-up time for all seven days and stick to it, even when you have no morning classes.
- Use Android's Bedtime mode (Settings, then Digital Wellbeing, then Bedtime mode) or the iPhone's Sleep or Focus settings to quieten your phone at night.
- If you oversleep and miss something, email the lecturer or manager briefly and honestly, then adjust your plan rather than catastrophising.
- If you sleep 8 or more hours and still feel exhausted for weeks, see a doctor (see the Managing Your Own Health module for how to book).
Practise in real life
Tick each one off when you have done it.
- Work backwards from your earliest commitment this week and write down your lights-out time and wake-up time.
- Move your alarm across the room for the next seven mornings and count how many times you snooze.
- Set up Bedtime mode (Android) or a sleep schedule (iPhone) on your phone tonight.
Remember
- Teenagers 13 to 17 need 8 to 10 hours and adults 7 or more, according to the CDC.
- Set your alarm for the time you really need to get up, and put it across the room.
- Snoozing gives fragmented sleep and does not leave you more rested.
- Light and movement help you shake off morning grogginess.
Note: The CDC table groups teenagers as 13 to 17 and adults as 18 to 60, so an 18 or 19 year old falls in the adult band. The exact menu names for iPhone sleep and Focus settings change between iOS versions, so the lesson describes them generally.
Check yourself
1. How much sleep does the CDC recommend for adults aged 18 to 60?
2. Why do sleep specialists suggest putting your alarm across the room?
3. What does the Sleep Foundation say about the extra sleep you get while snoozing?
4. What is sleep inertia?
5. Your lecture is at 9 am, the walk takes 20 minutes, you want 10 minutes spare and your routine takes 45 minutes. When should your alarm go off?
Sources
- CDC: About sleep
- Houston Methodist: Does hitting the snooze button help or hurt?
- Sleep Foundation: How to wake up easier
- NHS Every Mind Matters: How to fall asleep faster and sleep better
- Google Android Help: Manage how you spend time on your Android phone with Digital Wellbeing
- Apple Support: Set up a Focus on iPhone