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Emirati Etiquette · Lesson 1 of 8 · 10 min

Greetings the Emirati way

In Emirati culture, greetings are warm, unhurried and full of meaning. Taking time over them is a sign of respect, not a delay.

Words of greeting

  • The standard greeting is 'As-salaam alaikum' (peace be upon you). The reply is 'Wa alaikum as-salaam' (and upon you peace).
  • Greetings are often long: people ask after each other's health and family before any business or plans. Do not rush them.

Handshakes and touch

  • Between people of the same gender, greetings can be warm, with handshakes, embraces and kind words.
  • Between men and women, greetings are more conservative. Do not offer your hand to someone of the opposite gender unless they offer first.
  • Choosing not to shake hands is not an insult. Start with a spoken greeting and let the other person show what they prefer. A smile is universally accepted.
  • Placing your right hand over your heart is a warm, respectful greeting used across the Gulf instead of a handshake.
  • Do not hug or kiss someone of the opposite gender in greeting.

Traditional gestures of respect

  • Among Emirati men, touching noses and kissing the forehead or head of an elder are traditional signs of respect.
  • These are gestures to recognise and respect, not to copy unless you are part of the family or community.

Practise in real life

Tick each one off when you have done it.

  • Practise 'As-salaam alaikum' and 'Wa alaikum as-salaam' until they come naturally.
  • Next time you meet someone of the opposite gender in a formal setting, use the hand-on-heart greeting and let them lead.

Remember

  • Salaam first, take your time.
  • Opposite gender: let them offer a hand.
  • Hand on heart is a widely used, respectful alternative.
Note: The hand-on-heart gesture is documented in a Qatar guide (AFP via Al-Monitor); no UAE government page states it explicitly, though it is widely used across the Gulf.

Check yourself

1. What is the reply to 'As-salaam alaikum'?

2. You are a young man meeting an Emirati woman at a formal event. What do you do?

3. Someone declines your handshake. How should you take it?

4. A respectful alternative to a handshake is: