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Handling questions, interruptions and going blank

The moments people fear most are the unplanned ones: a hard question, someone talking over you, or a sudden blank. Each has a simple routine you can practise, so that when it happens you already know what to do.

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Prepare for questions in advance

  • The University of Guelph suggests writing down the questions you are likely to be asked, and practising your answers out loud.
  • Include the questions you would least like to be asked. Those are the ones worth rehearsing.
  • Guelph also suggests preparing backup slides with extra detail that you only show if someone asks.
  • Plan how you will invite questions at the end, for example: 'Thank you for listening. I am happy to take any questions.'

Answering well: the ABC method

  • Northern Illinois University (NIU) advises looking at the person asking, listening fully, and acknowledging the question, for example 'Thank you for that question.'
  • In a large room, repeat the question so everyone can hear it before you answer (NIU).
  • Guelph's ABC method: Acknowledge the question by paraphrasing it and asking for clarification if needed; Be honest; Contribute what you do know.
  • Keep answers short, so more people get a turn and you do not spend too long on one question (NIU).
  • Script: 'So you are asking whether the refill stations would cost more to maintain. Good question. Here is what I found...'

Tricky questions

  • If you do not know: say so. Guelph says never pretend; share what you do know and offer to look it up. NIU adds that you can ask whether anyone in the audience can help.
  • Script: 'I do not know the exact figure, but I can find it and email it to you after class.'
  • Off-topic questions: politely explain it is outside the scope of your talk and offer to discuss it afterwards (NIU).
  • Hostile or critical questions: do not counterattack. NIU suggests separating valid criticism from personal attacks and responding only to the valid part.
  • Running out of time: announce 'I will take one last question', then offer to stay afterwards (NIU).
  • Avoid shuffling papers, belittling a questioner, or only taking questions from one side of the room (NIU).

When someone interrupts

  • A speaker quoted in Toastmaster magazine reminds himself that he has the floor and nobody is going to interrupt him.
  • The British Council suggests a polite phrase for when someone cuts in during a conversation: 'Hang on, let me finish.' It adds that nobody has the right to rush or interrupt you.
  • For a classroom presentation, a softer version works well: 'Good point, I am coming to that in a moment.'
  • If a teacher or chair interrupts with a time warning, do not panic or rush. Skip to your conclusion (see the Workplace module).
  • In formal debates, interruptions follow rules called points of information, covered in the next lesson.

If your mind goes blank

  • Mayo Clinic says that when your mind goes blank it feels long but is probably only a few seconds, and your audience is unlikely to mind a pause.
  • Wellesley College advises pausing and gathering your thoughts rather than apologising. A pause also gives the audience time to absorb what you have said.
  • Recovery routine: stop, breathe out slowly, look at your notes, repeat your last sentence, then move to your next point.
  • Wellesley recommends numbered note cards or an outline with your main ideas and transitions, so you can find your place quickly.
  • If you cannot find the thread, skip ahead. Nobody but you knows the order you planned.
  • Do not announce the blank. As Toastmasters notes, audiences often do not notice small slips unless you point them out.

Practise in real life

Tick each one off when you have done it.

  • Drill: give a two-minute talk to two friends and ask them to fire three questions at you, including one you cannot answer. Use the ABC method every time.
  • Practise the blank routine: halfway through a practice talk, have a friend say 'stop'. Pause, breathe, check your notes and continue from your last sentence.
  • Write and rehearse your 'I do not know' sentence and your 'one last question' sentence so they come out automatically.

Remember

  • Write down likely questions and rehearse answers out loud.
  • Acknowledge, be honest, contribute.
  • Repeat questions in big rooms and keep answers brief.
  • Respond to valid criticism, never to personal attacks.
  • Going blank lasts seconds: pause, breathe, check notes, continue.
Note: The British Council phrase 'Hang on, let me finish' comes from advice for conversations in English; adapt the tone for formal settings and for speaking to teachers or elders.

Check yourself

1. In Guelph's ABC method for difficult questions, what does B stand for?

2. In a large room, what does Northern Illinois University suggest doing before answering a question?

3. How does NIU suggest responding to a hostile question?

4. What does Wellesley College advise if you lose your place?

5. A classmate asks something unrelated to your topic. What does NIU suggest?

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