Life-Ready SocietyEst. 2026
Etiquette · Lesson 5 of 21 · 10 min

Standing and walking with presence

How you stand and walk is the first thing people notice, before you say a word. Good posture also protects your back.

Standing: Debrett's TIGER method

  • T: Tauten (gently tighten) your stomach muscles.
  • I: Inhale slowly into your stomach rather than lifting your shoulders.
  • G: Grow tall, as if a string is pulling the top of your head upward, with feet firmly on the ground.
  • E: Equalise your weight on both feet. Leaning on one leg looks unsteady.
  • R: Relax your arms at your sides, or bend your elbows and keep your hands loosely in front of you.
  • NHS physiotherapists add: feet hip-width apart, knees very slightly bent, hips and shoulders lined up over your knees.

Walking

  • Look ahead (Debrett's suggests about 20 feet in front), not at your feet.
  • Keep your shoulders back and swing your arms gently from the shoulder.
  • Walk at a steady pace; very slow walking or stopping suddenly blocks people behind you.
  • Walk at most two side by side on a busy pavement; go single file in crowds.
  • Keep to the side local people use; customs differ between countries, so follow the local flow.

Phones and walking

  • Looking at a screen while walking, especially with headphones, can cause accidents and block other people.
  • A 2013 Ohio State University study found US emergency visits for phone-related pedestrian injuries rose from about 560 in 2004 to about 1,500 in 2010, and young people aged 16 to 25 had the most injuries.
  • Step to the side and stop if you need to read or type.
  • Do not hold loud phone calls in the street; stay aware of your surroundings.

Health bonus

  • Secondary school students can sit up to 5 hours a day at desks (NHS East Lancashire). Standing and walking well balances this.
  • Carry a school bag on both shoulders, under 10% of your body weight, with straps tight.

Practise in real life

Tick each one off when you have done it.

  • Stand in front of a mirror and go through TIGER. Take a photo before and after.
  • Walk to a point 50 metres away looking ahead, not at your phone. Notice how it feels.
  • Weigh your school or university bag. Is it under 10% of your body weight?

Remember

  • TIGER for standing.
  • Eyes ahead, shoulders back.
  • Stop to use your phone.
  • Bag on both shoulders.

Check yourself

1. In Debrett's TIGER method, what does the E stand for?

2. Where should your eyes be while walking?

3. You need to reply to an urgent message while walking in a mall. What do you do?

4. According to NHS advice, a school bag should weigh under: