Etiquette · Lesson 5 of 21 · 10 min
Standing and walking with presence
How you stand and walk is the first thing people notice, before you say a word. Good posture also protects your back.
Standing: Debrett's TIGER method
- T: Tauten (gently tighten) your stomach muscles.
- I: Inhale slowly into your stomach rather than lifting your shoulders.
- G: Grow tall, as if a string is pulling the top of your head upward, with feet firmly on the ground.
- E: Equalise your weight on both feet. Leaning on one leg looks unsteady.
- R: Relax your arms at your sides, or bend your elbows and keep your hands loosely in front of you.
- NHS physiotherapists add: feet hip-width apart, knees very slightly bent, hips and shoulders lined up over your knees.
Walking
- Look ahead (Debrett's suggests about 20 feet in front), not at your feet.
- Keep your shoulders back and swing your arms gently from the shoulder.
- Walk at a steady pace; very slow walking or stopping suddenly blocks people behind you.
- Walk at most two side by side on a busy pavement; go single file in crowds.
- Keep to the side local people use; customs differ between countries, so follow the local flow.
Phones and walking
- Looking at a screen while walking, especially with headphones, can cause accidents and block other people.
- A 2013 Ohio State University study found US emergency visits for phone-related pedestrian injuries rose from about 560 in 2004 to about 1,500 in 2010, and young people aged 16 to 25 had the most injuries.
- Step to the side and stop if you need to read or type.
- Do not hold loud phone calls in the street; stay aware of your surroundings.
Health bonus
- Secondary school students can sit up to 5 hours a day at desks (NHS East Lancashire). Standing and walking well balances this.
- Carry a school bag on both shoulders, under 10% of your body weight, with straps tight.
Practise in real life
Tick each one off when you have done it.
- Stand in front of a mirror and go through TIGER. Take a photo before and after.
- Walk to a point 50 metres away looking ahead, not at your phone. Notice how it feels.
- Weigh your school or university bag. Is it under 10% of your body weight?
Remember
- TIGER for standing.
- Eyes ahead, shoulders back.
- Stop to use your phone.
- Bag on both shoulders.
Check yourself
1. In Debrett's TIGER method, what does the E stand for?
2. Where should your eyes be while walking?
3. You need to reply to an urgent message while walking in a mall. What do you do?
4. According to NHS advice, a school bag should weigh under: