Etiquette · Lesson 19 of 21 · 12 min
University and interview etiquette
Interviews and your first weeks at university are full of first impressions. Preparation and courtesy set you apart.
Interviews in person
- Arrive 10 to 15 minutes early. Know the route and parking in advance.
- Greet everyone politely, including reception staff; they are often asked for their impressions.
- Firm handshake (or a respectful verbal greeting), eye contact, wait to be invited to sit.
- Phone on silent and out of sight before you walk in.
- Sit upright, hands relaxed, and listen fully before answering.
Video interviews
- Log in 5 minutes early, having tested your camera, microphone and software beforehand.
- Camera at eye level; light your face from the front, not behind.
- Tidy, neutral background; silence notifications and close unneeded tabs.
- Look into the camera often: that is how you make 'eye contact'.
- Dress professionally, at least from the waist up and ideally fully; avoid busy patterns.
After the interview
- Send a short thank-you email within 24 hours.
- Mention something specific you discussed. Keep it to about 100 words.
At university
- Office hours are part of the course, and professors want students to come.
- Prepare questions ('I understand X, but how does Y work?'), introduce yourself with your name and course, take notes, and say thank you.
- Arrive at lectures on time; if you are late, enter quietly and sit near the door.
- Use your university email for all official contact.
Practise in real life
Tick each one off when you have done it.
- Do a mock video interview with a family member: test lighting, camera height and background.
- Write a 100-word thank-you email after any interview, real or practice.
Remember
- Early: 10 to 15 minutes in person, 5 online.
- Be kind to everyone, including reception.
- Camera at eye level, light in front.
- Thank-you within 24 hours.
Check yourself
1. How early should you arrive for an in-person interview?
2. On a video call, where should you look to make 'eye contact'?
3. When should you send a thank-you email after an interview?
4. What do professors think about office hours, according to Harvard College?