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Etiquette · Lesson 19 of 21 · 12 min

University and interview etiquette

Interviews and your first weeks at university are full of first impressions. Preparation and courtesy set you apart.

Interviews in person

  • Arrive 10 to 15 minutes early. Know the route and parking in advance.
  • Greet everyone politely, including reception staff; they are often asked for their impressions.
  • Firm handshake (or a respectful verbal greeting), eye contact, wait to be invited to sit.
  • Phone on silent and out of sight before you walk in.
  • Sit upright, hands relaxed, and listen fully before answering.

Video interviews

  • Log in 5 minutes early, having tested your camera, microphone and software beforehand.
  • Camera at eye level; light your face from the front, not behind.
  • Tidy, neutral background; silence notifications and close unneeded tabs.
  • Look into the camera often: that is how you make 'eye contact'.
  • Dress professionally, at least from the waist up and ideally fully; avoid busy patterns.

After the interview

  • Send a short thank-you email within 24 hours.
  • Mention something specific you discussed. Keep it to about 100 words.

At university

  • Office hours are part of the course, and professors want students to come.
  • Prepare questions ('I understand X, but how does Y work?'), introduce yourself with your name and course, take notes, and say thank you.
  • Arrive at lectures on time; if you are late, enter quietly and sit near the door.
  • Use your university email for all official contact.

Practise in real life

Tick each one off when you have done it.

  • Do a mock video interview with a family member: test lighting, camera height and background.
  • Write a 100-word thank-you email after any interview, real or practice.

Remember

  • Early: 10 to 15 minutes in person, 5 online.
  • Be kind to everyone, including reception.
  • Camera at eye level, light in front.
  • Thank-you within 24 hours.

Check yourself

1. How early should you arrive for an in-person interview?

2. On a video call, where should you look to make 'eye contact'?

3. When should you send a thank-you email after an interview?

4. What do professors think about office hours, according to Harvard College?