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Etiquette · Lesson 3 of 21 · 8 min

Titles and forms of address

Using the right title shows respect and preparation. Getting it wrong is rarely a disaster, but getting it right is noticed.

Everyday titles

  • Mr for men; Ms for women when you do not know their preference (Mrs and Miss are used when the person uses them).
  • Use the title with the surname: 'Mr Khan', never 'Mr Ahmed' if Ahmed is his first name, unless that is how he introduces himself.
  • Use first names only when invited to, or when the person introduces themselves that way.

Academic titles

  • Write 'Dear Dr Smith' or 'Dear Professor Smith'.
  • Never say 'Professor' plus a first name, and do not use 'Doctor' without a surname in writing.
  • If a tutor signs their emails with only their first name, that usually means you may use it. Until then, stay formal.
  • People with a PhD are addressed as Doctor plus their name, just like medical doctors.

Senior officials

  • Ambassadors and ministers are styled 'His/Her Excellency' (HE) in many countries, including the UAE.
  • Gulf royal and ruling-family titles (Sheikh, Sheikha, Your Highness) are covered in the Emirati Etiquette module.

When you are unsure

  • Ask: 'How would you like me to address you?' is always polite.
  • Listen to how others address the person, and copy the most formal version.
  • Err on the formal side. It is easy to relax later; it is awkward to go back.

Practise in real life

Tick each one off when you have done it.

  • Look up the correct title and spelling of one teacher, one university admissions officer and one family friend you might write to this year.
  • Draft an email opening line to a professor whose name you found on a university website.

Remember

  • Title + surname until invited otherwise.
  • Never 'Professor Firstname'.
  • When unsure, be more formal and ask.

Check yourself

1. How should you open an email to a lecturer called Dr Sarah Jones?

2. Your tutor signs emails 'Best, Tom'. What does that usually signal?

3. When unsure how formal to be, you should:

4. Which is incorrect?